Relationship Rules

One desire we are all born with is the desire to be loved; to be accepted and appreciated for who we are.  When someone likes us, does business with us, or wants to spend time with us, it is because they are drawn to our personality.  We don’t have to change who we are to be acceptable, to be loved.  We are perfect just the way we are.  We can be ourself.

The best way to receive is to give.  Today, show someone you approve of them, you accept them for who they are.  Tell them they don’t have to change–that you love them no matter what happens.  Tell your children you are glad they were born.  Give a compliment to a stranger or a child.  Then go look in the mirror and tell yourself the same thing.  See yourself as a person who deserves the best of everything. Notice how good it feels.  Make this a daily habit and see your life change.

Use Spring, this time of rebirth, to let yourself blossom.  Allow your personality to be heard and seen and know you are loved.

Do you ever feel like a part of your life has stagnated?  Have you stopped doing something you love.  Stopped asking for what you want?  In the busy lives we lead, just doing what needs to be done takes up a lot of our time.  Making time for what we want must be accomplished on purpose—and with purpose.

Take a moment and ask yourself what have you kept yourself from doing.  What have you denied yourself because you didn’t take the time?  Remember back on how it made you feel when you did make time.  Maybe it was when you were in an exercise routine or when you spent time in daily meditation.  Was it a hobby you loved?  Allow that memory to come to life in your mind.

Are you willing to recommit to your desire?  Find that place inside you that knows no regret  I bet you can.  Once you find that place inside yourself, go get a drink of water.  Drink it and imagine yourself watering your dream.  It will grow, especially if you tend to it often.

Happy Spring-happy rebirth.